Tongue-in-cheek explanation (with more than a grain of truth) of why it’s so hard to land a Chinese beauty.
The question of breeding (why foreign men get the “ugly” Chinese girls)
At the Teahouse Café: Essays from the Middle Kingdom
What decades of living in China have taught this American expat.
The many faces of Chinese “face”
Chinese “face” and Chinese “apathy” reconsidered in dynamic relationship.
The breast etiquette project
A civilized approach to men’s obsession with the breasts.
Honesty, diligence, obedience: Why I support China’s Great Firewall
An openminded appreciation of the Great Firewall of China.
Massage and the Writer: Essays on Asian Massage
What if the antagonistic aspects of the massage practice—the therapeutic and the erotic—were seen as inseparable?
A massage school
There is no such thing as strictly nonsexual massage: massage is always already erotic.
